DailyME 8: It’s time to say NO

And not regret it a minute later

NATALIIA TOTKA
100 Naked Words
2 min readOct 27, 2017

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I meet so many different people every day and I usually don’t understand them. And I don’t even try anymore.

Btw, understanding them has nothing to do with language, which is German and German is like my fourth language =)lol

Being a very understanding and patient person most of the time, at some point I had to give up trying to relate and understand whatever bullshit people were talking or doing.

It comes a time when you gotta say no to toxic people

To stupid people (okay, maybe I’m a bit arrogant))

To unfair treatment — life has never been fair

Just say “no” if it doesn’t serve you

Try it

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Since HE left, I’ve been saying NO to a lot of things

Like going out with this acquaintance of mine who liked me and maybe (most probaly) wanted more

Like going out for a walk with my mate from work, because I had no time, but I actually thought it would be better not to go out with him again (he likes me too)

I also said NO to all men, all crappy relationships and all the crying

Because I am done, playing a game where I only loose, where my heart gets torn apart, when I am left with nothing

I don’t like games like that

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Next time I want something so incedible and so extraordinary — it will take my breath away and maybe then I will know for sure that someone is for me

Weirdly, I was sure about HIM, I was sure he was the one.

But I guess a different treatment from a different man 3 months after breaking up with my ex doesn’t mean that it’s forever.

Unfortunately..

However I wanted it to be

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Life has its magical ways

Let’stumble again and again and see what happens

And don’t forget to say NO to the assholes who bring you down!!!

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