21st Century Girl
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21st Century Girl

Work, Business, Equality, Disability

You Don’t Speak for Me

Learning to advocate, and self-advocate, in a world full of noise.

Photo by Nadine Shaabana on Unsplash

When I graduated from University in the summer of 1999, my very middle-class roommate told me that now I had a University degree, I was no longer working class. I turned to her and said, “I will always be working class”. At the…




Modern life, the good, the bad, the ugly, and the indifferent. Musings on the mysteries of life today.

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I am interested in a lot of things. I am writing a novel. I was longlisted in the Mslexia novel writing competition in 2017. My website is: jojobonetto.com

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