Thank you for sharing this advise because I think that it is something that can never be addressed too much. We as humans are good at complaining and not always the best at finding the good in bad situations. I enjoy how you bring your ideas across and it is in a way it can be more personalized depending on each individual. Of course changing bad habits always takes time and that is okay. I look at times I am about to complain or I see or hear another person complaining and I just think to myself what does that help. It does not help us feel better, it does not make the situation any better and most the time it makes everything worse. There are times of course when we can mourn or be sad during hard times but I believe that is very different then complaining. I like how you explain that we need to look at the good happening within the bad. I think it is so very important to stay positive. When we complain I have noticed that things never get better and a lot of the time they actually get worse or we begin to get more mad or sad about the situation and things continue to go wrong but I have realized the times I relax and press forward with a positive mind set that is when things begin to work in my favor and things become better. I think a lot of times it is all how we see things even bad situations if we look at the good its a lot easier to have a more positive life and overall I have never seen complaining help any situation so I believe it is important that we try to see the good and point out the good. Thank you for addressing this important points.
