My amazing GF cuts in lines and is embarrassing me!
My GF cuts in line. Once she cut in line at the Postoffice by declaring she had to catch a plane, which was a lie, and unsuspecting nice citizens let her get in the front of the line so she wouldn’t miss her flight. She did admit to feeling bad about her deceit and she regretted her actions. Truthfully, she has no concept of working towards a goal; instead, she believes that she can study for a few weeks and become an expert in anything. My background is that you have to study for many years before becoming knowledgeable in any subject. When we go to nice dinners, she insist on weird minutia like getting a great table by the chef or something so she can experience the cuisine. I do love her: she’s highly intelligent, fun, compassionate and loving, and we have a great time together, but this small, entitled trait really throws me off. What should I do? It’s causing a culture clash between us. Help!- Moderate BF

Hi Moderate BF, sorry to hear you’re feeling embarrassed. Your GF sounds like an impatient brat who needs to learn some manners. Life isn’t a race but a journey. It is great that you love and respect her because she sounds quite irritating and naive to me. I’d dump her in a heartbeat because I suspect she’s oblivious and willfully unaware of her own entitlement, which leads her to believe that her ‘specialness’ should supersede all other human beings’ needs. However, since you love her, perhaps its worth having a serious talk about ethics and protocol. She does seem to have a bit of chutzpah and ability to be bold, which may make her adaptable and open to new ideas and mindsets. Also, this may incidentally be what you love in her? Sit her down!