Before the birth of his son, A.J. Daulerio tries to make peace with his own father — and himself — Last June, Father’s Day came and went without much acknowledgement from my father or me because we’d spent most of 2015 hating each other. That October, I checked into rehab. That December, we got into a physical altercation. My father, 74, and me, 41, struggled for position in the family…