Dude now you’ve gone and made me all self-conscious linking to that brilliant, better-executed take on this subject. Just kidding I’m too tired to be self-conscious. :) You’re not the first person to tell me this about your work experience with other ladies. Mine has been so different — working with brilliant, razor-sharp, supportive women — and so perhaps I’m being too hard on the advice givers. I am sort of a bitch. That’s being kind. I am a mega bitch.