The Holiday Singles Love to Hate

It’s almost Valentine’s Day and with this holiday comes a whack of beliefs, judgments, and expectations around love and whether or not you are lovable. It’s easy to get confused thinking that if you don’t have a partner it means you aren’t worthy or good enough. None of this is true, all it means is that you haven’t found the right person yet or that you have found the right one but it is the wrong time.
One of the best quotes I’ve heard recently is

“If I could love that much when I was with the wrong person, imagine how much love I will have when it’s the right one. “

Before this Valentine holiday gets you down in the dumps (if you are alone or you are with the wrong partner) I want to remind you that you are valuable, you are lovable, you are worthy.

Keep these mantras in mind.

1. Alone isn’t the same as lonely
2. My heart is open and I radiate love.
3. Give love, get love.
4. I deserve love.
5. Love will come when I detach from needing it.
6. ​I am love.

There isn’t one day of the year that is more important than any other to give or to receive love. If you begin to make love a daily priority, you will attract it.

Happy Valentine’s Day