The definitive guide for effective one-on-one meetings

Alaa' attya
Nerd For Tech
Published in
2 min readJan 21, 2023

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What’s it all about?

  • Most of the time should be spent discussing items helpful for the candidate’s development plan.
  • Ask about the candidate’s life, getting married, moving to a new place, and hobbies,…
  • Discussing how stressed they feel. It could be a rate from 1 to 5
  • Discuss how the candidate generally feels about a specific company’s update or if someone is leaving.
  • Addressing the candidate’s fears if any
  • Managers could share a quick summary of what he/she’s been working on recently.
  • Each time we should swap who will write the meeting minutes and both parties should have an agreement about the written meeting minutes that are filled up after the meeting.
  • It could be a small retro about what the person did really well and what could have been done better.
  • Managers ask candidates for a quick review. Actions could be assigned also to the managers

What is it not about?

  • Discussing status updates about ongoing projects (this should be done during standups)
  • Technical discussions or design decisions

General notes

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Alaa' attya
Nerd For Tech

Software engineer, #coding tweaker, Web Apps killer, techie fan. #PHP is my mother tongue, Gopher, Staff software engineer @deliveryherocom