Agree with you. Those people just don’t know what’s it’s like to live in REAL racist and opressing system. Living in the most free country in the world they have forgotten how can REAL problems look like, and years of patronising and condescending made them fragile and sensetive to miniscule matters.
More over, just like “by killing the dragon you become dragon” yourself, they are becoming those sexist and racist themselves. Who would think in 2000 that POC would like themselves to be calturally segregated (what else is cultural appropriation if not a segregation on base of color and origin).
All those people they don’t want to change anything by exploitation the chances they’ve got (chances they wouldn’t get in any other place), they just demand more and more special treatment which would only stagnate them and further — corrupt them.