Dr. Lexi, How do I . . .
August 11, 2016
This is how most of the emails I get about the Hotwife Alternative Marriage Lifestyle begin. What I do, is provide real and truthful information about how the Hotwife Lifestyle really works day to day, for the average couple, including what it is, and isn’t, for men, women, and couples, who ask me. I use the term Soccer mom Hotwife to define the type of woman I am referring to whose husband has a fantasy of sharing her with other men.
Unfortunately, trying to explain what this Lifestyle isn’t, takes up a lot more of my time because most men that write to me are getting their lifestyle information on a site like Tumblr. I’m not trying to piss off any of my followers, however most of what you see there is not real and those captions photos are written by men that wish it was.
There is not one thing wrong with fantasy. All people fantasize just like all people masturbate. The thing is, I am not here to feed anyone’s fantasy and help paint an unrealistic picture of this incredible marriage enriching lifestyle when it is practiced for the benefit of the marriage.
For one thing most soccer moms don’t look like the porn stars you see being spit roasted or double penetrated, or demonstrating how oral sex is done. Most Hotwives are not married to Cuckolds either, but you wouldn’t know that from a lot of the stuff you see on sites like Tumblr or the shit you read in the Forums.
OK, so I know many of you who have been following me for a long time have heard me say this stuff before and you are probably scratching your head or your private parts wondering why I am back ranting about this again. Well I’m glad you are wondering.
It’s because I have a much larger audience now because I am Posting not only on Tumblr and my website, but also on Medium.com which is a much bigger deal for Alternate Marriage Lifestyle stuff without the porn. It’s a more mainstream thing. Tumblr has mainstream areas as well but the Hotwife area is not one of them
The articles I write over there are typically more in depth because on Tumblr I feel like if I go beyond about 500 words I start losing people because I stopped posting pictures of my tits a long time ago. That was Michael’s idea anyway, not mine. We did that at first when neither one of us knew what the hell we were doing. He thought I needed to do that to get people to read my stuff.
Let me wrap this up by saying that I have nothing bad to say about the Tumblr website. It gave me a terrific opportunity and I made the most of it. I have made some great friends as a result of being here and it’s how Dr. Lexi’s* Coconut Telegraph got going. The women of the Coconut Telegraph who help me get it right more often than I get it wrong have been a major inspiration in my Hotwife Life.
No one agrees with anyone 100% of the time. There are as many ways to be a Hotwife as there are Hotwives and not everyone agrees with me on how I think it should be conducted. That’s OK with me.
My mission is to help people get it figured out in the way that works best for them, not best for me. Are there soccer mom Hotwives who regularly get themselves spit roasted and double penetrated? Are their Hotwives that are married to sissy cuckolds who thrive on humiliation? You bet your ass there are!
*Dr. Lexi is not a real doctor.
