The interested Challenge

“People are not interested in you they’re interested in themselves” these words give me a new direction because before reading this quote from a book “HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE” I thought that other people interested in me but after taking this challenge or after applied it in my personal life I can easily say that if you are interested in people then other people are also interested in you. If you show kindness to a person, then this person also show you kindness.

If you are talking with your friend about you and continuously talking about you then you can notice that he gets bored or irritated with your “Chappar Chappar” and try to leave the discussion by different excuses like phone call, important work etc.

But when you are talking about themselves then you can notice that this discussion keeps on just because people are interested in themselves not in you. When I talk with my Friends, Teachers, Fellows about themselves not mine I get positive responses from them even I also got an invitation from my friend to visit his village in holidays only by interested in himself if I was not interested in him then why he invited me. By showing little interest in others we can easily win the hearts of people.

“YOU CAN MAKE MORE FRIENDS IN TWO MONTHS BY BECOMING INTERESTED IN OTHER PEOPLE THAN YOU CAN IN TWO YEARS BY TRYING TO GET PEOPLE INTERESTED IN YOU “if you have a thinking that the people will be interested in you than its take much time even sometimes it takes years and you are still thinking. But if you show your interest in people then they will also be interested in you and the same thing we have learnt from the Interesting challenge.

So, become genuinely interested in other people if you want success in life. If you love other’s then others will also love you.
