You know, the most fucked up part about this is,
Why wouldn’t your mom, just give you the money, so that you could raise your kids more comfortably?
I have a Mom like this.. Our relationship is improving because I’m letting it , but I didn’t speak to her for years. Some Moms just don’t like their daughters, some moms are envious of their youth, beauty, whatever. They can’t stand their daughters. It’s true. They don’t want their daughters to succeed or be better than them.
Wealthy like yours.
Also doesn’t want to share that money with me. Which is fine. It’s her money after all.
But when they take your kids because of problems with money. Instead of helping you, keep your kids, that’s straight up evil.
There is a book, you gotta read.
It’s called “ The People of the Lie” the study of human evil. By M. Scott Peck.
Read it.
Also,
Kids care more about life and living it and seeing parents happy than they do money.
They really really do.
They might think their lives suck, poor and not going to private school.
But they were meant to be with you, to live the life that you gave them. The reason isn’t known. But they picked you, not your mom to raise them.
I would get an injunction and get your kids and get a small place in a cheap part of town, maybe another single mom to rent with and live your life. Send those kids to public school and that’s that.
You will never be ok wiThout your kids. That will never sit easy. And sure kids are hard. And it’s hard to work, go to school all of it with kids but in the end there is just no other way, that is the only option for a mom who loves her children.
Wish you the best of luck.