“Because,” he said, dismissively. “Honestly, even if I do my best, you’ll never be able to please a man. You really should consider changing your sexual orientation.”
The Surgeon Who Told Me to Switch My Sexual Orientation
Dawn Ennis

OMG, red flag! Like saying, “I can’t do what other surgeons can do, so you should magically change your orientation so what I am able to do can be measured as a success.”

People, anyone says that to you—RUN!