It’s hilarious how much you care about this. Offended? Really?
As a man that doesn't have short hair, quite frankly I'm offended that your icons don’t show men with long hair. /s
Additionally, if you want to take this “woman being in the shadow of the man” stuff literally, then you can justify it because the man will almost always be out in front to protect women, both domestically and in times of war. Unless you feel like being a front line soldier any time soon, that is.