I don’t have children, they made it so bad for us I never felt a child should be with me. But I have a great stepson. In my eyes a child doesn’t need to be pampered but guided and also held responsible for his actions or non-actions etc. Children love me cause I always take them serious but I am really not that fond of them. It’s too exhausting for my fragile self.
Part of what they did disturbed me greatly and brought me and my sis a lot of trouble while growing up — and it took a lot of therapy to become a somewhat functional human being. I don’t wish this for anyone.
We sisters are still the black sheep cause we broke the totally wrong patterns going on in our families since generations.
I am a huge advocate for children if something comes to my awarness — no child deserves being treated like it’s his fault being born and stripping their parents of the life they could have had without them.
