Men, if you are thinking about having kids, take the examples in this article as how it WILL be. Don’t let your mind convince you it will be different.
The woman is biologically driven to just think about hers and the child’s well being. You only play a role in that — as provider. You are a tool, to get the job done. The woman is also programmed to lose sexual attraction for you after child birth, again a survival trait and also laying the ground work for finding a different father and subsequent divorce in the future.
This sounds harsh but its true.
Whatever power you think you had in the relationship drains away for most men, bit by bit day by day, unless you are prepared for this
And don’t believe the call to “do more around the house” the sex never materializes.
