If you’re a white cisgendered able-bodied neurotypical butch woman then yes, you have a great deal of systemic oppressive power within queer spaces. As long as there’s someone more marginal than you there is plenty of shit to roll downhill. You are an oppressor within your own community. And yes, you are just as bad if not worse than ‘violent misogynistic men’. How dare you come in here and try and pull that cis-splaining shit.