Love is making a choice every single day, to either love or not love. That’s it. It’s that simple. Either to continue the process or not. We fall in and out of love when we’re in relationships. Read that again. Because people think if we’re not head over heels for someone, we shouldn’t be with them. Our feelings fluctuate, depending on the relationship but also how happy we are in our own lives. And yes there is drift and if you drift so far that you don’t know or like yourself anymore, maybe it is time to jump. Just know that there is a difference between feeling love for someone (caring about a person) and loving someone (choosing to love that person). You may have love for someone forever. But that doesn’t mean you choose to love that person forever.
The characteristic changes in urban governance include gradual offloading of essential municipal services, privatization of municipal services, introduction of user charges, greater involvement of non-state actors like community based organizations and local contractors.