That requires that those women recognize that transmasculine people are both not women and not insulting them. To me, it seems like the reasons for this not happening right now (in some cases, probably most) are the fault of the women, not an unwillingness on the part of transmasculine people to talk about their experiences. A lot of the transmasculine people I see talking online are very open about having experienced misogyny; if you’re female-presenting you literally can’t avoid it.