Why we feel empty?
There comes a time when you realise that you don’t have a goal in your life. That’s the day, you are on the right track.
Change!! An inevitable truth of this world. Everything changes. And the biggest example is time. Time is the ultimate truth in the world and damn, man it changes every instant. I know you must be feeling why am I talking about time and change. Have patience.. It’s deeply connected to the topic being titled.
We all face numerous kinds of situations in life. Sometimes we have everything(not really everything), and sometimes we have nothing. Well this nothing includes trust, friends, aim, direction in life etc. The time we feel we don’t have anything is the right time for us to make a decision for our life.
Most of us are running and wasting our life over stuff which is not in our control. Biggest example-people. Well, everything happens for a reason. And most of the time, this reason is NEED. Most of the people around you are actually around you for some kind of need. Till the time you fulfil it, they stay, and after that WHOOSH. Believe it or not but most of us are trying to make place in people’s heart. This happens because we are humans, the social animals, Really? This can be taken as an excuse. Being social is good, but some of us take this SOCIAL thing so seriously, that we overdo it. We try to be a person, for whom no one can can say anything wrong. Come on, it’s fine to have people around, but don’t overdo this good person image thingy. Even over drinking water is unhealthy. Most of us are so desperate to maintain the goody goody image that we waste a good amount of time of our life. Come on, if you are a good as a person, then you will find good people. If you TRY to maintain something, then trust me, you will loose ultimately. The best way to live your life is NOT TRYING. Whoa Whoa!! By Not trying I don’t mean that you sit idle. It simply means that don’t try to hold situations and people, the way you want. Don’t live to please others. If you are not pleasing others and still manage to have people around, then that’s the best you can do for yourself and they will stay.
When this time comes, you will be able to decide for the aim of your life because at that time, you won’t be thinking about OTHERS, you will be thinking about you, your life, your goal. And believe me, that will be an unforgettable day of your life.