AyzadThe problem with financial dominationResearching the wide, wild world of unusual sexualities involves lots of online searching. I actually love how this exposes me to a…May 22, 2018May 22, 2018
AyzadDiscovering ASMR (and its inevitable pornography)The world of fetishisms is immense to say the least. While very few people are complete fetishists, which is to say, capable of finding…May 19, 2018May 19, 2018
AyzadTraumatizing readers for fun — Interview with Samuel Spano, author of Nine StonesRemember my fanboy-ish applause for Sunstone, the graphic novel I loved for its realistic and positive approach to the reality of BDSM? A…May 15, 2018May 15, 2018
AyzadThe importance of being Leather — Interview with Fabrizio Paoletti, Mr. Leather Italy 2017Here in Italy, the word ‘leatherman’ is more likely to be misinterpreted as the name of a talk-show host than associated with the culture…Apr 15, 2018Apr 15, 2018
AyzadReaching for divinity — Why do dominants do BDSM anyway?BDSM, like every complex subject, cannot be truly explained unless you disassemble its many, highly varied facets and analyze them…Mar 26, 2018Mar 26, 2018
AyzadThe honest guide to finding the master of your dreamsWriting this article was more complicated than usual — and surely harder than the previous one, in which I suggested erotically submissive…Mar 19, 2018Mar 19, 2018
AyzadHere’s why we need kink educators (but elsewhere)I generally love my job, but sometimes it gets so frustrating… Last week, for example, was dotted with exasperating incidents that however…Mar 1, 2018Mar 1, 2018
Ayzad#MeToo thinks this time things could really changeNote — I have been conflicted about how to present this article, which was originally written for an Italian audience and references a…Feb 26, 2018Feb 26, 2018
AyzadHow to find the mistress of your dreams: an honest guideI launched this website in July 2003, after years of activity as a peon user on a number of BDSM-related websites. I have since become a…Feb 9, 2018Feb 9, 2018
AyzadErotic hypnosis — The game you really cannot playThe field of unusual sex is subjected, like any other, to fads and fashions. That is due in part to the tendency to always seek out…Jan 28, 2018Jan 28, 2018