Hi, just chiming in with an additional “you are not alone” comment. These are two of the main things getting me down lately too. I have almost no local friends and I have lived here 3 years! And I’m up about 20 lbs over where I was last year, which was already 20 over where I was a few years ago, which was not even that low to start with! It feels so out of control for me too. Thinking of both of you and hoping you both feel better soon!