I wish it was easy for women to just say no and “handle it better”
But you can’t honestly believe it is really that simple. It’s not about seeking approval. As the one’s with the means to carry the child, more expectation is put on women-full stop. In getting married and having kids.
This is not a who gets it worse but please don’t belittle women to “they cant handle it as well as men”. It’s quite insulting. I should not have to tell anyone to mind their business.