When You Feel Like Quitting

Life is too hard. I don’t know how many times you have heard these words in your life but, I have heard this thousands of times. I also faced several times in my life when I am one in the door of quit. We all are human beings so it is obvious to have a similar kind of thought. Nothing wrong with this.
But I have one question for you. Have you ever analyze why people are saying like this. I have also asked myself the same question and try to find the answer.
I found some interesting answers to why we think about quitting. Before going to discuss the solution of this puzzle, let’s find the root first. So what is the root?
What forces us to give up easily?
I think this is the root of giving up a tree. As we are all human beings we have our feeling, doubt, self-confidence spiritual believe, etc. These things make us superior in the earth than other creatures.
In the course of life, we all want to achieve something in life. This achievement may vary from person to person but we all have the tendency. With the above human tendency, we have acted to achieve our goals.
Sometimes we concur it easily and sometimes it seems very hard. In hard time, we need some motivation also. But motivation even lacks many times. So the easiest way to get rid of all these things is to give up and back to our comfort zone.
The following also forces us to the road of quit.
In the path of achieving our goals, we faced many failures. So this hurts the ego and we want to just leave it now. Another thing is the outcome. We are blind to achieve the outcome but not ready to face any hurdles. When hurdles come in between us and the outcome, the outcome seems blower and we give up.
Another thing is overthinking about the journey. Whenever we want to start work or in the middle of the work, we start thinking about the outcome. Some of it seems a little bit difficult, then we want to just give up.
These are not the only reasons why most of the people give up very easily. There are thousands of others. So you may think about why I have not listed them all? The simple answer is no need to list thousands of reasons. I have only listed the most important things.
Don’t give up! This is not a destination
The easiest thing we see when a problem is just giving up. But this, not your actual destination. You are not born to just giving up things. You have to be a hustler. Why? Let’s find out.
Don’t think that success can be achieved in one shot
Yes, success is our destination. But do you judge it as a traffic-free one-way road? If you think so then you are wrong. There are a lot of roadblocks and slippery roads. You might not see in the beginning but you have to face the truth.
To define the life I have my example. You are in the Ferrari running 300 km per hour and there is no break in the car. You must collide with any hurdles and find yourself scattering all around. You will not collide once, hundreds of times. Try to learn from each collision. Each collision makes you a more perfect driver and you will become a hustler. Then you become an experienced player in the car crushing game.
Overnight success is a myth
We are in a pond of illusion. We often look at successful people and assume that they have got overnight success. Success was very easy for them. But in reality, they have come accords thousands of hours of hard work and a lot of failures. That’s why they are successful.
You have to tighten your seatbelt for the journey not for the destination. You must reach there if you have completed the journey.
When you will reach the destination, then turn your back and one thing will come out of your mind. “What a journey that was!”
You may be quitting right before your success
I have seen many cases when people are quitting when they are just one step away from success.
You have crossed miles for this destination. When you are quitting, who knows you are in the door of success? Instead of opening the door, you are quitting? You deserve this success. Just make some efforts and you will be there.
Struggle = quit?
Most people excuses that they are struggling that’s why they give up. In this way they give up people turns into inspiration for other people who want to give up.
You are not the only one who is struggling in the world.
Never think that hard times or struggling time leads to failure. Keep grinding. Just take the “failure” word out of your vocabulary. Struggling comes with the lessons. This is like “Buy one get one offer”. With the struggle, you get the valuable life lessons for free.
Stay motivated! How?
First of all, I am not a motivational speaker. The world is full of it. I respect them also.
Keep one thing in mind that no motivational speaker or quotes can motivate you until you don’t want to.
The motivational video or text may fill instant energy. But it does not fuel your Ferrari in the long run. These motivational things are great to build the energy machine that can supply you the energy lifelong. No external motivation can boost you till you are not self-motivated.
However, let’s face some motivation.
Be patient with yourself. If you want to be an entrepreneur, then you can’t build a multi-billion company overnight. Not even you only, no one can. It takes time to grow the tree.
Everyone has week points. Figure out the week points in you. You are not born perfect but you have to make yourself as perfect. There are no online or offline courses for it. If they exist they are all garbage. You are your teacher.
Learn to celebrate every small win. Success is not always big.
No measuring tape can measure success.
When you are following goals, train your brain to enjoy each small achievement.
When you ignoring these small achievements in the journey indirectly you are making your journey more complicated and irritating.
You have choices. Don’t think that this is the only goal you have to achieve. Who knows there is a much bigger goal is waiting for you. You have to decide what goal you want to crush.
Final thoughts
To say honestly, great things never come easy. When the storms are hitting you, make yourself as a hustler and go through it.
When you trained your brain to learn from the mistakes and struggles, then you will be unstoppable.
