William Moore
Aug 9, 2017 · 1 min read

As a gay man who recently joined OkCupid due to growing weary of flighty, flakey and aloof men who don’t seem to know what they want and play games, I’m somewhat surprised by this issue. After all we’re all adults here but then again, some guys never grow up and act like adults. This is something I’d expect from teenagers who don’t have maturity and decorum to know what’s cool or what’s in poor taste. The gay community at least the men’s community always seems to think that so called ‘dick pics’ are cute and ways to incite interest but to me they show that’s all you’re thinking about and not very mature. If you are just looking for meaningless ‘hookups’, fine, try grinder or one of the other APPS specifically geared to that. I’d say a majority of the gay men on this site are looking for meaningful adult relationships and are finally fed up with the usual gay scene: aloofness, attitude, bars, BULL**IT, disrespect, rudeness and the mind wasting games that so many men seem to play, at least in San Francisco. Of course, I eventually want to see my potential partner nude, hey don’t we all but there’s a time and place for everything. After getting to know him and establishing chemistry and rapport, then on to the next level, wherever that might take us!

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