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Who knew it would be so difficult to be an American woman? According to this author, if we women aren’t suffering intolerable sexism then obviously we are either living in some lala land of exceptional privilege, or we are ourselves misogynists. Somebody needs to lighten up — focus on her advantages and maybe lend a helpful hand to those still finding their way — might save an adrenal blow-out.

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