Abortion, The Women’s March, and other Uncontroversial Things: A Couple’s Perspective


On the anniversary of Roe vs. Wade, there is quite a convergence right now with this past Saturday’s Women’s March, Trump’s Inauguration the day before, and the upcoming March for Life this coming Friday. I don’t think I’ve ever written about abortion, mainly because it’s a conversation I’d rather have in person, and I’m certainly not an expert. Not to mention, it tends to get people up in arms, and often for good reason. But today I felt compelled to say something.

Though my theological disposition has always tended to be broadly evangelical, I hold fairly “progressive” views on many social issues. But not when it comes to abortion. I think abortion is awful. I have a son now, and there’s no question in my mind about the sanctity of his life in the womb. I can only speak as a man, which is insufficient, but Whitney speaks for herself below, and even in the exceptional cases that make abortion necessary or justified (to save a mother’s life, rape victims, etc.), I believe it remains tragic. And the reality is that the majority of abortions do not occur as a result of these extenuating circumstances.

Thus, like many others, I desperately want the demand for it to decrease. And there are many ways to loving combat this epidemic — some political, some not. It is my impression that the conventional liberal position on the subject is an understandable but misguided one, funded in part by an on-going reaction to the incredulity of the Religious Right. I am unconvinced, however, that outlawing abortion or voting for only “pro-life” candidates is the best or most effective way to actually go about being “pro-life.”

Though it is a very different issue, my doctoral studies on the drug war taught me a lot about the power and adaptability of illicit markets. Pushing abortion underground could potentially do more harm than good. Hearts are not likely to be changed by taking this approach, and in the long run, it may not even save more lives. A social and economic strategy (rather than a legal one) may be stronger. And as a pastor, I think churches and non-profits have unique resources and opportunities to fight abortion by creating safe, shame-free support systems for at-risk moms. Moreover, every ounce of God’s grace must be proclaimed and extended to persons who’ve had abortions in the past.


With regard to the Women’s March, I can understand why some feel excluded from it because of the organization’s official stance on reproductive rights. The march was about much more than that, though, and discrediting it on the grounds of one issue seems unwise. Politics is messy, and the campaign platforms of popular movements will rarely line up perfectly with all of our convictions. But we need these kind of demonstrations. They are vital to the integrity of democracy.

In fact, any “pro-lifers” who marched on Saturday may have been making one of the strongest statement of all. And why not participate in demonstrations such as the Women’s March as well as The March for Life on Friday? For one thing, that would certainly be a fly in the ointment of the Christian stereotype.

There are also those who might be inclined to dismiss the march because they feel their rights have already been secured. If that is you, I recommend reading this post. Marching for women’s rights is about protecting and celebrating progress as much as it is about achieving it. Obviously, some who participate will condescend and indulge rather than seek to educate and build bridges, but this is the exception more than the rule.

I pray that Christians in particular can find a way to dialogue and work together across the isle on important issues like this. It is easy to be discouraged by all of the polarizing discourse one sees right now. I have added my own fair share of critical commentary. Nonetheless, I remain hopeful and confident that the good news of God’s coming kingdom will shine through the cracks of our divided society.

Whitney’s Take:


I have been watching communities and people in my life respond to the Women’s March this weekend and feel convicted to form my own response.

There are those in my community that would say, “Why would I march? I have all these rights, and I don’t stand for abortion.” I say, that response is too simplistic and dismissive of an act of solidarity that stands for so much more. I don’t support abortion either, but I also know that it is a very complex, heartbreaking issue that cannot be given a black and white label. I am not going to “throw the baby out with the bath water,” because this march was about more than one issue.

Regarding the laws that establish women’s rights: just because a law is so, does not mean its intended effects play out in culture — especially for those that have grown up poor, without a support system, and are stuck in a vicious cycle that upper-middle class citizens have a hard time fully understanding. I know this because I grew up in the upper middle class and don’t always see what isn’t put right in front of me. One’s worldview and experiences do not reflect an accurate picture of reality for all, and that has been a hard concept to remember and operate from for me.

From my perspective, I would have marched because the expectations placed on working mothers today sometimes feel insurmountable — you feel like a lesser worker and a lesser mom (not to mention a lesser sex object if you don’t look just so)… perhaps feeling guilty for the way your attention is divided, or maybe for the way you need your work to sustain you as a person rather than just the role of a mother. I would have marched for the mothers that want so desperately to be at home with their babies full time, but cannot afford to be. I would have marched in celebration and honor of the women that participated in public demonstrations throughout the 20th century so that I can vote or even have the freedom to feed my child by whatever means necessary (as seen in this photo, where I am pumping in an airport bathroom. The things we do for our children…)


I would have marched because I try to follow Jesus, and he calls us to stand with the marginalized and esteemed women in a way that was downright contrarian for his time. I would have marched because we have elected a president that represents so much about what many women have been fighting either subversively or overtly throughout history. I would have marched because he makes light of Woman, and I take that personally. I would have marched because I want to learn to work with people I don’t agree with. I would have marched in honor of the women in my life and family that have shaped me. I would have marched because women feel the pressure to max out all capabilities and possibilities since we do have opportunity in the US, rather than to live at a more sustainable, enjoyable pace. I would have marched to make a statement about how my husband and I have committed to raise our son, and how we are going to do our best to teach him the Truth.

Basically, women amaze me. They are ethereal beautiful, wise, strong beings so much like their Creator, and they give and sustain life. The experience of becoming a mother and the raw emotional and physical energy it demands of one has left me in awe of the capacity of all women, mother or not. We are capable of so. much. So. Much. It is incredible and words seriously do not do it justice. We can and do do it all.

P.S., I didn’t march because it was raining and I was home with my baby while my husband was working :)

Originally published at William A. Walker III.