You actually had me at proud fat woman! I was a mess on Friday night; frustrated by men demanding I change to make them more comfortable. I called my very best friend…the one whose arse is about half the size of mine.

She echoed the words I’d told her a million times before….i just needed them directed at me.

“You don’t need to change. If anyone has a problem with you it’s their issue…not yours. Don’t you dare change a thing unless you want to.”

Be proud. Be fat….keep writing. Your voice is strong and sure…and beautiful!