That gaslighting, tho. :|
This is a problem I face. A lot. They can’t see the trigger, the action they’ve taken that has caused me to react, because what’s little to nothing for them is a free-falling glacier to me. So when he spends an entire date texting a myriad of beautiful women, my insecurities and attachment starts barreling in like a hoard of Viking warriors and I’m “paranoid.” I’m “clingy.” I “need self confidence.” No. I’m reacting to a foul you’ve done and am only responsible for how I convey my anger.