BLOG TIME WITH SAM: Honesty, Trust, Screw ups, and Being big hearted
Just because some people cannot understand your logic, doesn’t mean you are not a bad person.
Well I just went through something that caused me to cry and made me feel like I messed up a friendship, but in a way it really wasn’t my fadult, but on a way it was. It made me really think about writing this and I really want to open peoples eyes and see that people will react differently and will do it in a different situation. I also want to write this to show that all four relate in some form or another.
Honesty.

Honesty is key, especially in friendships and relationships. People want you to be honest with them because its better than lying to someone’s face. It is very key in relationships because if you are not honest, it can destroy it from the inside out.
Honesty in trust:
Being honest with someone can earn their trust because it makes it easier to get along worth people and you can explain how you feel, and if you are honest people they will be honest with you.
Honest in Being Big Hearted:
Now, this can be hard, especially if you are a big hearted person. Yes, it is possible, but nine chances out of ten it is going to be hard.
For me, I am a very big hearted person because I worry about people more than myself which leads to me to consider to make other people feel better about themselves and watch myself go to shit.
You can be honest while being big hearted, but it comes off more cruel and heartless because you didn’t want to say anything in the beginning because you didn’t want to hurt peoples feelings, so when you finally have had enough, you flip your lid.
Honesty in screw ups:
Honesty in screw ups is better than not saying anything at all, even if your honesty is what got you in the screw up on the first place. Now not everyone agrees with this, but its key because it better late then never.
TRUST:

Trust is also key, especially if you have your trust in someone who you open yourself to. Now, posting your busI mess to social media is a huge way to get someone to hate you, but the best way is just to go talk to the person.
Trust can be earned and can be easily broken.
Big hearted:
Being hearted can have advantage and disadvantage. It is also a way to a great personality but also a horrible personality.
Pros:
- Your considerate of other people’s feelings.
- You do think with your heart with but not with your brain.
Cons:
- You think more about other people than yourself
- You think with your heart and not your brain.
Being big hearted people don’t want to hurt people purposefully, and we feel extremely guilty when we do.

SCREW UPS:

Now Screw ups sucks because especially if your like me, you feel guilty because it makes you feel like complete Poop. They also ruin friendships. The screw ups freaking suck.
End the end:
In the end, it helps to be a good person and try to explain yourself, even if the other person hates you, or compares you to people in their past.
It also good to apologize for yourself, even if you didn’t mean to hurt the other person.
Have a good day!
SAM