BLOG TIME WITH SAM: Privacy, Respect, and Family

Wild Mrs. Cheppy
Aug 28, 2017 · 4 min read

Yes, with the Internet being a big thing and people posting stuff all day every day to the World Wide Web. Some people post some of their business, some post all their business to the Internet. With the Internet becoming a big thing, private information and things people would want to keep hidden.

But, I am not here to talk about the privacy of the Internet, we are here to talk about Family, respect and privacy.

When it comes to family, respect is a big thing among your immediate family and family on your mother and fathers side. Now granted there are some family members that test you and make you rage flip and want to choke the ever living crap out of them, but they are still your family.

Also with family, privacy can be considered nonexistent because you have some people who decide to rummage through your things and take what does not belong to them.

(That is right sis, I am calling you out.)

Parents:

Yes parents, I am going to call you out first because I want to tell you from a child’s point of view on privacy. Now, don’t get me wrong, I am not saying not to ignore the fact you might want to check in on your child and see what they are doing, but I want to explain that it is alright to let your child have some privacy.

So, Now I will make a list of the types of parents, and I will explain towards the end about children and privacy.

Parents who do not check on their children at all:

These parents trust their children and/or give them a little too much trust and don’t think that they need to intervene with their children lives, so they let them have 100% privacy.

Now, as much as everyone wants these types of parents are the “cool parents” , these parents are also ones that need parenting classes to OPEN their eyes to make them see that they need to also be in their childrens lives.

Drill sergeant parents:

Now don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with making rules and being up your kids bottoms about rules, BUT THESE parents are the exact opposite of the cool parents.

These parents are extremely strict and do not even allow their children to breathe the wrong way without having some sort of rule that would get them in trouble for little things.

NOW WHAT DOES THIS HAVE TO DO WITH ANYTHING?????

This has to do with EVERYTHING! Certain parents will do things with their children that they think is right, but what I feel that parents do not understand is, that children need a sense that they have their own space to relax and a bit of privacy. I am not saying, give them all the space in the world, just vice them enough to feel respected.

Siblings:

Now, I am going to hit the siblings!

We all have older brothers or sisters or younger siblings ……… unless you are an only child……. And there is a rage that we all get whenever we are around our brothers and sisters. Well, they get on your nerves….. Alot, but hey, you cannot choose your family.

Now, when it comes to them, they tend to want to have everything you do and you just want to wrap your hands around their neck, but you cannot because it is illegal. Though siblings area curse, they can be a blessing.

HAVE A NICE DAY!

Sam!

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