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Loosing my V-card at the wrong time:

Wild Mrs. Cheppy
Jul 21, 2017 · 4 min read

(warning: some language may not be suitable for some viewers. Viewer discretion is advised)

So, this will be a very taboo subject since it is talking about. NO NO subject. I want to open eyes to show the reality of some people in what happens how they loose their virginity.

Well first thing is first, I will tell you how I lost my virginity. I will exclude names.

(/゚Д゚)/STORY TIME!! ヽ( ຶ▮ ຶ)ノ!!!

So, at the time it was a month before I turned 19 and the guy who I had lost my virginity to was a friend of mine who had just been dumped by his girl (my first mistake). Well, we had met up the first time because he wanted to catch up after not seeing my face in two years and bought me a milkshake (which later I ended up spilling in my lap). So we had come back from there and I being the big hearted person I was tried to comfort him and just talk to an from Sonic. Well, back at my house he kissed me(second mistake). Well, a couple days or a week or two later, second time we meet up and he decides he wants to use fingers……and then you know where that leads. (my third mistake and lead to more mistakes later on) I felt so guilty about it. AT the time, that guilty feeling was due to the fact that I had slept with a guy who had just been dumped. Now when I look at it now with all that we did, to me, it was not the fact that I had slept with a just freshly dumped guy, it was the fact that I lost it at the wrong time with the wrong guy. I regret even sleeping with him.

Loosing your virginity:

Be prepared! I will show you the way!

I want to make this part so people who still have their cherry intact can learn from this if they are thinking about doing the horizontal bop!

#1: Just wait until you are married.

Yes! This saying has been said for MANY GENERATIONS and as much as you want to rebel against your parents and go do reverse cowgirl on a guy in the backseat, it is the best advice to be given.

Waiting until you are married is one of the best things for someone to do because in the world we live in today, people carry all kinds of diseases that you do not want and the possibility of getting pregnant.

#2: Wear Condoms and have birth control!!!!

Yes!!!!!! Condoms and birth control are the biggest thing that people need to use! You risk getting an STD and STI if a condom is not worn. You are also putting yourself at risk of getting pregnant.

If you need lube, make sure the condom does not break because condoms are broken with oil based lube.

#3: If you decide to stick the sausage into the sausage wallet, chocolate tunnel, or rub rugs together or be in a sausage fest, MAKE SURE YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT!

If ypur decided that you want to finally have sex with your partner, MAKE SURE THAT YOU HAVE A BASIC IDEA OF WHAT YOUR BODY LIKES!

It is very important to know this so your partner knows what to do when you two finally get the time and place to help each other get off. It is also very important that you get things for yourself like toys so if your partner happens to lack, you have a way to finish the job.

#4: You can say no.

Yes. It is possible. If you are not comfortable with the idea of giving your virginity to someone. Say no. It is your body.

If the partner gets upset, don’t be ashamed that you said no. They were not the right one. Your partner should understand that. NO MEANS NO!

So there you have it! Please take my advice and wait until you are married. It would be easier and you don’t have to worry about the guilt.

HAVE A NICE DAY!

Sam


So I have one more blog to post and it will be about Southern Heat.

Then I have a couple more blogs that I want to do about abuse, rape, and mental illness and it will probably be very controversial.

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