Kate, fabulous blog. I completely agree because it is the story of my life. I chose to start looking at doing everything I could because I was single and might not be able to do if I was in a relationship. And, while I was having so much fun and feeling fully satisfied, I attracted a man. We were engaged within 3 weeks, married 4 months later, and we’ve been married for 23 years. What keeps us together is what I call my Strategic Attraction Plan. I would be happy to share it with you.