I write & speak about gender, sex, new media, and communities. Books: THE S&M FEMINIST and VIOLATION: RAPE IN GAMING and CONFESSIONS OF A PICKUP ARTIST CHASER!
I've now self-published some reasonably successful books and I have more on the way.
A few years ago ….
Today, in 2012, I avoid him as much as I can.
[Trigger Warning for both consensual and non-consensual sexual violence.]