I find myself subjected to the downside of this a lot. Take the very heated debate on punching Nazis. I lean heavily to pacifism and nonviolence as a guiding principle. But that said do not feel a burning desire to take up arms against and denounce the Nazi punchers. The debate takes a lot of space and is kind of pointless. Punching people is illegal, it’s assault. Even if they are Nazis. That seems like a good policy. If people want to break it, well, call it civil disobedience and be done with it.