This Oscar season, celebrate by supporting creators who prioritize diversity: Start with “My…Oscar season always makes me think of my childhood, because one of the highlights of my youth was walking into the cool air of the movie…Mar 13, 2023Mar 13, 2023
Can White indigenous practices be a thing? (Please read before you @ me.)A few months ago, a dear White-bodied kindred spirit asked me if I would hold space for her as she discerned an important question for…Jul 6, 202210Jul 6, 202210
We’re missing something about mass shootings, mental illness, + gun control: how systemic…Something has been disturbing me about the dialogue I see after yet another spate of horrific mass shootings perpetrated by lone gunmen…Jun 2, 20221Jun 2, 20221
The precarious nature of White women’s embodiment (a reflection for women’s history month)As usual, I want to have a dicey conversation, and it’s one where there is a huge opportunity for me to say something utterly stupid, or to…Mar 18, 2022Mar 18, 2022
Excuse me, your Whiteness is showing…(on Ukraine, White media, and really embarrassing supremacy…Well, this is embarrassing.Mar 1, 202212Mar 1, 202212
It’s so convenient being White: the conversation we should be having about Whoopi Goldberg + the…Recently Whooopi Goldberg got herself into some hot water when she claimed that the holocaust “wasn’t about race,” but rather “man’s…Feb 11, 20223Feb 11, 20223
4 Reasons I didn’t post anything on MLK Day (and why maybe you shouldn’t have, either.)Every January (and again a few weeks later, during Black History Month), I see White people everywhere share lots of memes on all the…Jan 19, 20221Jan 19, 20221
Is “manifesting” a White supremacist idea? (Another paradoxical problem with white spirituality.)How White gurus (like me) get manifesting all wrong…and do real racial harm while we’re at it.Jan 5, 2022Jan 5, 2022
In defense of lust + longing: How to find your power again.Would you be more powerful if you harnessed your lust and your longing?Jan 1, 2022Jan 1, 2022
The elusive contentment of blueberries (and how to be happy again).How to stop chasing old dreams and find your true contentment.Dec 29, 2021Dec 29, 2021