How I relate to this… I want to say untruth, but I want to honour your feelings too. I believe this about myself too but in my more rational moments I think it can’t be true of anyone. Just because something goes to blazes between two people doesn’t make either one of them less wonderful. I think some combinations are just <place adjective here> I like ‘fucked up’ but I can’t describe what you feel, I can only respect it. They just are what they are. They hurt Sometimes. Take care Heath