Dude. Her “ideology” is to just be nice to people. Or at the very least, don’t be a dick to people. Treat others the way you want to be treated.
Women are telling you they don’t like getting hit on at work. They don’t like being expected to have romantic/sexual relationships with their colleagues and superiors. It makes them uncomfortable. So just don’t do it. Why is that hard? They are equals. Respect their wishes.