Unlimited Self Confidence…

You’ll never be able to do that. That’s what I said to myself

My self confidence DOES NOT result from me thinking I’m better than you

It comes, from simply knowing how Awesome I am.

Don’t get me wrong. I think you’re just as cool. You just haven’t realised it yet …

It comes from knowing first hand what I’ve overcome to be who I am today.

I remember, at a point in my life when my SA ( Social anxiety ) was so bad I could hardly talk to a person I didn’t know. I remember listing all of the things I was 10000% convinced I could never do

• Public speaking / presenting- was one of them

And then setting out to do those things.

My confidence comes from achieving ALL of those things. Maybe not to the highest level but so fuck, I did it and continue to do so.

It comes from a life so far of continuously facing and finding new. challenges, finding things that scare the crap out of me. Things that should be impossible for me and then doing them anyway.

It comes from having the belief in myself that I can achieve what I want, how I want and when I want and simply put if something doesn’t align with that. It gets removed or ignored completely

I don’t think I’m better than you. I just know how amazing I am. That’s not arrogance. It’s just the result of a lot of challenges. That’s just SELF awareness.

It’s just a FACT !

That’s ALL Confidence is. SELF AWARENESS.

It’s the realisation that YOU are already MORE than enough right now. You simply need to show up as ALL that you are- no holding back.

But often before you realise that. You just need to walk through a bit of fire first.

-Paul

PS – SA STILL kicks my Ass occasionally. And that’s ok.

You rest, recover, look after number one. Get your head clear and then the next day simply ‘ Show up’

Having Self Confidence does not mean never having self doubts ( I do, daily ) it means carrying on regardless

So… Whatever you do. Never stop Showing up. Don’t let that fear control you. Keep moving forwards.

P