Soulmates, Just a Scam
I had a girlfriend, 28 years old, capable in both social and domestic settings, but her love life was far from smooth.
She had encountered men who caught her eye, but they were already taken, so she had to suppress her admiration. There were also men who admired her, but she wasn’t interested.
She always said that the man she would marry must be someone she could connect with on a deep level, a true soulmate. Despite expectations of impending good news in her few relationships, she always ended up breaking up with them.
She would say, “He doesn’t understand me, just being nice is not enough for a happy marriage, is it?”
I would look at her in silence, perhaps she misunderstood the concept of soulmates. Men’s love and women’s ways are different, defining the ideal partner as a soulmate is too narrow-minded.
Are soulmates real?
But once love gets involved, so-called soulmates are just a scam.
Maybe it starts with the label of “soulmates,” but in the end, it all becomes mundane. After marriage, it all comes down to daily chores and the ugly reality.
There are no goddesses or gods in marriage, just men and women facing the chaos of life together. Those who know how to nurture a marriage will fare better and occasionally create some…
