Dave Caputo
UX Designer in nonprofit land. A perpetual maker and breaker. I write about design, advocacy, and DIY topics.
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Great write up! I’ve dealt with imposter syndrome constantly in my career, I always have and I presume I always will. Developing tools to deal with it so early is fantastic. It took me years to even realize what was happening but now I can recognize the feeling for what it is and employ the same “mountain of evidence” tactic you learned.
Keep it up man! It was a pleasure!
First of all blaming the victim is atrocious behavior. Why would you assume that a man who is stalking at least 2 other women would in anyway listen to reason? When she did confront him it was not even in a very harsh way and look at his reaction! Based on what she has described your suggestion would likely only have escalated the situation faster…
Looking forward to seeing how this progresses! It’s like kismet that this popped up in my email because just yesterday I was brushing my teeth thinking about how it’d be so nice to have my calendar for the day displayed on my mirror!