PinnedThe 2000s Emo Music That Saved Me as an Alternative Black-African TeenThe angsty ‘White’ songs that helped me navigate a ‘No Feelings Allowed’ upbringingApr 18, 2024A response icon17Apr 18, 2024A response icon17
PinnedPublished inModern WomenInner Summer for the IntrovertOnce a month, my menstrual cycle creates the optimum conditions for full-on extroversionMay 19, 2024A response icon14May 19, 2024A response icon14
PinnedIt Felt Like I Had Been Asleep for Over 30 YearsI had no idea what boundaries were until I played a children’s songMay 9, 2024A response icon5May 9, 2024A response icon5
PinnedStorybook Characters That Got Me Through My Teen Scapegoat YearsI disappeared into White fictional characters to cope with my chaotic presentJun 7, 2024A response icon4Jun 7, 2024A response icon4
PinnedPerfectionism Is About Self-Doubt and ControlMy journey as a self-taught painter and unpacking my biggest barrier to creativityNov 21, 2024A response icon17Nov 21, 2024A response icon17
Published inInvisible IllnessI Look Able-Bodied, But I’m Dynamically DisabledFinding vocabulary to navigate life with invisible illnesses in a skeptical and prejudiced worldOct 10A response icon21Oct 10A response icon21
Published inThe MemoiristI Told a Close Friend That We Were No Longer CompatibleAnd Healed a Part of Myself I Had Been Running FromSep 11A response icon8Sep 11A response icon8
Published inModern WomenHealing My “Intelligence” Wound”How Dysfunctional Perceptions of “Intelligent” Erased My True Self for DecadesAug 5Aug 5
“The Blogger Formerly Known As…”Why I am re-branding after an almost 1 year hiatus from Medium and social mediaJul 30A response icon2Jul 30A response icon2
Ignoring My Instincts is a Trauma ResponseUnlearning the self-doubt I once used to protect myself as a childDec 11, 2024A response icon1Dec 11, 2024A response icon1