Diji
Diji
Jul 21, 2017 · 1 min read

In my own experience, talking about my ex starts pretty early… I have kids, and since they’re a significant part of my life, so is she. We have that weird unicorn “we get along and are friends” kind of relationship. This has worked against me with at least 2 women I’ve dated since, which both expressed intimidation at how well we get along.

You are absolutely right… the healthiest way to look at past relationships is as objectively and impartially as possible. Admit you both made decisions or mistakes that contributed to the relationship deteriorating, and leave it at that. I prefer transparency on the subject, so I don’t mind questions and would answer them as honestly as I could.

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