I don’t really have time to get in an internet fight with you about this especially since this can hardly be described as “good faith” but you’re projecting as much onto what women want as I am so you have just disproved your argument. If you want to talk about this with me I’m open to a private dialogue but I’m not in the business of argumentative mudslinging hence why I linked the original article but didn’t blow up the author’s feed or tag him. I believe in critique without ruining someone’s whole day.
Best of luck to you. While I totally disagree with your entire premise here I respect that you’re living honestly on the internet and taking space to declare your truth. Your other work is brave.