If your primary goal is to date women and approach them and get to know them when they don’t want to interact with you, you are still in the wrong and still objectifying them.
I am in your facebook stream because someone shared my article.
You have spent a lot of time on medium objecting to their terminology for not pacifying your feelings and I deeply hope that you can someday be a good teammate to social justice and interpret those messages with more depth and feeling than what you have demonstrated here. You have a difficult time understanding your place when it comes to adding to the conversation. I recommend when you engage in a space that you spend a whole lot more time listening and considering.