The result is some pretty toxic malesub behaviour, which is why I care about it because I sometimes write and blog to help my fellows get their act together.
I meant that, the archetypal FemDom (btw, I like what you did with that term) in mainstream media…
Giles English

Oh yes! Now I see. It also falls into very fraught (and dangerous) attitudes about sex work and whether it is actual work (it is). It further calls into question both clients and pro dommes but for people that don’t occupy that space it creates pretty fucked up dynamics within the community or people who want to break into the community