Oh yes! Now I see. It also falls into very fraught (and dangerous) attitudes about sex work and whether it is actual work (it is). It further calls into question both clients and pro dommes but for people that don’t occupy that space it creates pretty fucked up dynamics within the community or people who want to break into the community
Sorry I took so long to respond! So glad you’re taking the opportunity to evaluate masculinity and your role in the lives of people around you. If you have any recommendations for resources for people who are struggling with toxic masculinity, I’d really appreciate any of your suggestions.