I understand where you are coming from, I do. But, “working harder” isn’t the only answer. Working together. Ensuring men are having the conversations too. Changing how women are treated is a societal lift that we all have to make. Are your male buddies as concerned that Mike Pence won’t hold 1 on 1 meetings with women? Are they doing something about it? Men must hold men accountable for how they approach the world. The same way women hold other women accountable for the intersectionality of their feminism.