Wilfred Smith
Aug 31, 2018 · 1 min read

Y’know, just because you have issues doesn’t mean that the entire world has to have the same problems.

I’m glad you’re expressive enough to vent, but it doesn’t sound like anyone was trying to hurt you. Men are considered selfish if they don’t take care of their partner’s needs. You want to punish them because of that same consideration.

There’s a huge meme around men not wanting to cuddle. You complain about exactly that.

It’s going to be difficult for you to find someone who loves you, but does exactly what you want, when you want it. On a good day, it’s wonderful to find someone who is willing to try in the first place. And, as you get older, you’ll notice those good days becoming exponentially less common.

I’m not trying to hurt or insult you, just to share wisdom with you. You’ve set up a conundrum that most wont bother to solve.

    Wilfred Smith

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    Christian technologist, software developer, author and management consultant from the dawn of computing