Andi Planderson
Sep 6, 2018 · 2 min read

She feels having an orgasm is her right, but she’s not obligated to anyone that gives it to her. Now, check the double standards there.

What if it was a guy saying: ‘She made me come, but that doesn’t mean I owe her anything! She was some good #$#y and that’s it.’ Can you imagine what a POS we would think he was? So he made her come, doesn’t mean he OWES her a cuddle afterwards, how needy is she for not getting he needs space!?

But she’s cold and wants space after sex (what many guys do when they are younger especially because they don’t have any respect for women -and we women hate them for it. Why? Because it kills your self -worth. Your self-esteem. It makes you feel used. Crappy. Thrown away. A piece of meat.)

But she turns the tables around and this is feminine power? Owning your orgasm without compromising or giving any emotional intimacy? And she’s mad they call her frigid? Why? Maybe these men feel used and discarded.. Exactly the way women feel when MEN do this.

NO. If we are teaching men about consent, and valuing women. We need to teach women the same. She invalidates these guys sense of self for orgasm and proudly storms off after she comes — complaining how needy he is for wanting to cuddle.

Sorry, she should just get herself off or use hook up apps without any strings attached. Not all men are devoid of feelings and there are lots of nice ones who get permanently scarred by women like this.

And know what happens next? THEN, they become those cold, shallow men who only go looking for sex. Why? They start out nice guys who are broken by women like this…

She’s not a heroine. She’s cold. And entitled. Sorry, but you should want to be close to the person you have sex with. If you’re only looking for sex, fine, but clear that up beforehand. Don’t treat the man who wants to cuddle like a penis who doesn’t deserve any compassion or intimacy.

As men can be feminists and respect consent, and value women, women can be taught the same. This fake, feminist entitlement is absurd.

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